Elopement vs. Micro-Wedding: Which Is Right for You?

When it comes to planning your wedding abroad, two terms often come up: elopement and micro-wedding. Both offer an intimate, meaningful way to celebrate your love, especially in a destination as romantic as Lake Como. But what’s the real difference between the two, and how do you know which one suits you best?

Elopement vs. Micro-Wedding: Which Is Right for You? Let’s break it down.

What Is an Elopement?

An elopement is all about the two of you. Traditionally, it meant running away to marry in secret but today, it’s evolved into a deeply personal celebration that focuses entirely on your connection.

An elopement usually includes:

• Just the couple (and sometimes a few witnesses)

• A symbolic or civil ceremony

• Minimal styling and logistics

• A relaxed timeline focused on the experience - think photos on a boat, a private dinner overlooking the lake, or a sunset ceremony on a villa terrace

Best for: couples who want an intimate, stress-free celebration with no pressure or expectations.

What Is a Micro-Wedding?

A micro-wedding is a small-scale wedding with all the traditional elements just fewer guests. Typically, it includes 10 to 30 people and features a ceremony, reception, dinner, and sometimes music or entertainment.

It’s perfect for couples who want the feel of a wedding day - walking down the aisle, exchanging vows in front of loved ones, cutting the cake but prefer a more intimate atmosphere.

Best for: couples who want to share their Italian experience with close family and friends while keeping the day relaxed and personal.

How to Choose Between the Two

Ask yourselves:

• Do you picture the day as just us, or can you not imagine it without your loved ones present?

• Do you want a simple, emotional ceremony or a full wedding experience on a smaller scale?

• Is your focus on the moment or the celebration?

If your dream involves pure intimacy, adventure, and spontaneity - elopement might be your perfect match.If you want a balance between intimacy and tradition - micro-wedding is likely the way to go.

How We Can Help

At Lario Wedding International, we specialise in both elopements and micro-weddings across Lake Como and Italy. Whether you dream of exchanging vows on a secluded terrace or hosting a candlelit dinner with your closest guests, we’ll design a day that feels authentic, effortless and uniquely yours.

Ready to start planning your Italian celebration? Get in touch to explore your options.