How to Legally Get Married in Italy as an International Couple

If you’re planning to say “I do” in Italy, especially as an international couple, you may have quickly realised that the paperwork and legal requirements can feel overwhelming.

Don’t worry - you’re not alone. Between language barriers, varying local regulations, and documents from different countries, the legal side of an Italian wedding can seem complex.

This guide will walk you through everything you need to know to make your wedding legally recognised in Italy, so you can focus on what really matters: celebrating your love in one of the world’s most beautiful settings.

Step 1: Decide What Type of Ceremony You Want

First, it’s important to understand the different types of ceremonies available in Italy:

• Civil Ceremony: This is a legally binding ceremony performed by a civil official, usually at the town hall (Comune) or a licensed venue. This is the most straightforward way to get legally married in Italy.

• Religious Ceremony: A religious wedding (such as a Catholic ceremony) can also be legally valid, but it requires specific paperwork and cooperation between religious and civil authorities. Other religions may require a separate civil registration.

• Symbolic Ceremony: This ceremony has no legal standing in Italy, but offers complete freedom to customise your vows and location. Many couples choose this if they plan to complete the legal part in their home country first.

Step 2: Understand Civil Wedding Requirements for Foreign Couples

For couples coming from abroad, including Australia, the Italian authorities require proof that you are free to marry. The main documents you will need include:

• Passports or valid identification for both partners

• Birth certificates (long-form versions may be required)

• Proof of termination of previous marriages (divorce decree or death certificate, if applicable)

• The Nulla Osta — a formal statement from your home country that there is no impediment to your marriage

Step 3: Navigating the Nulla Osta Process (For Australian Couples)

The Nulla Osta is a key document for Australian couples planning a legal wedding in Italy. Here’s how it works:

1. Prepare Your Documents: Gather birth certificates, passports, and divorce/death certificates if needed. Ensure some documents are translated or apostilled if required.

2. Book an Appointment: Contact the Australian Embassy or Consulate in Italy (Rome or Milan) to make an appointment for your Nulla Osta.

3. Submit Documents and Pay Fees: Present your documents, pay the necessary fee, and complete any required forms.

4. Receive and Deliver Nulla Osta: Once issued, the Nulla Osta must be submitted to the Italian Comune where your wedding will take place.

This process can take time, so it’s wise to plan it months before your wedding date.

Step 4: Religious Ceremonies - Additional Paperwork

If you choose a Catholic ceremony, additional documents such as baptism and confirmation certificates and proof of pre-marriage counselling may be necessary. Coordination between your home parish and the Italian church is essential, and timelines can be longer (start at least 6–9 months in advance).

Step 5: Symbolic Ceremonies - A Stress-Free Alternative

Many couples opt to legally marry in their home country first and then have a fully personalised symbolic ceremony in Italy. This option has no legal paperwork in Italy and offers complete flexibility in terms of location, timing, and style.

Step 6: Keep in Mind Regional Variations and Timelines

Each Italian municipality (Comune) has its own regulations, notice periods, and available dates for ceremonies. Larger towns and cities tend to have more flexibility, but smaller towns may require early bookings and strict timelines. It’s always essential to check directly with your chosen Comune.

Step 7: Why Hire a Wedding Planner for Your Italian Wedding

Navigating the legal requirements from abroad can be tricky and time-consuming. Here’s where a wedding planner makes all the difference:

• We handle communication with local authorities and suppliers

• We ensure all your documents are correctly prepared, translated, and submitted on time

• We prevent costly delays or mistakes that could jeopardise your wedding date

• We coordinate all the legal and celebratory parts seamlessly, so you can enjoy the process

  
  

Ready to Make Your Italian Wedding Dream a Reality?

Getting legally married in Italy doesn’t have to be stressful. With the right guidance and planning, your ceremony can be as magical as you’ve always imagined.

If you’re an international couple dreaming of a wedding in Lake Como or anywhere in Italy, I’m here to help you every step of the way from paperwork to the party.

Contact me today to start planning your unforgettable Italian wedding experience.

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